Is it better to lose the ones who meant the most earlier on in the game? Do you feel less pain if they leave sooner rather then later? I've been thinking a lot about it...its really all the same. When someone touches your heart, no matter how long they were around...they have left a mark behind. A scar, a constant reminder of there presences. Its how we choose to deal with it that makes a difference. Whether or not we let it consume us. Whether or not we choose to learn from these memories and mistakes.
Sometimes people are put in your life just to help you open your eyes and realize what has been in front of you all along. We are so blind to the beauty that surrounds us that we need something heartbreaking to waken the soul again. Something to remind us of what we've had all along.
For two years I let others lives over shadow my own. I let myself be forgotten. I willingly let myself fade into the shadows without a fight. I let the drama and events of everyone's lives be more important than my own. I walked around blind to the beauty that I had in my life...
And finally one day my world shook so hard i felt it all falling apart. All the pieces to my puzzle that I fought so hard to keep together were coming apart. I was forced to open my eyes and re-evaluate the life I had made for myself. Or I had let others make for me. I was forced to face myself. I had no choice but to strip myself to the bare essentials and start all over again. I needed to redefine myself...better yet...i need to find out who i truly was without the influences and inputs of others.
Had i done this before i would have realized that for two years the love that i had been looking so hard for...this love that i had only dreamt of and seen in movies...had been standing beside me all along. The "Nick" to my "Norah" as some have put it, had been in front of me all along, but because i had let myself get caught up in the lives of others i had not seen it.
Now that i have opened my eyes...things look so much more beautiful than i could have ever imagined. My life has come full circle, and i am grateful and happy with were i stand. I am grateful for those who continue to take this journey by my side. Who willingly stand beside me and my decisions. Who support me for who i am and not what i can offer them. Im grateful for the love that over spills from my heart, and the butterflies that never stop.
Dont ever look at the pain in your life as a bad thing...embrace it for what it is. An eye opening event in your life that will only help you. Look for the beauty in the car crash, because when you find it...that is when your life truly begins. When you accept the happiness and good that you are being given. The chance to change the dark and the heart ache and turn it into something beautiful and world changing. Embrace the life you've been given. Make what YOU want of it...dont let others determine your happily ever after. Build it the way you have only dreamed it would happen.
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